As a first time Mom, before and while I was pregnant I had a list of things I told myself I would NEVER do. Now I know better. I'm writing this down see what else changes after baby #2.
1. Post a million pictures on social media. I used to roll my eyes at the parents who would post a pic of their kid every. single. day. Now I am one of those mother's. 😂 My excuse being that all of our family lives out of state but really it's because I truly feel I'd be doing a disservice to the world by not showing him off.
2. Breast feeding in public and not giving AF. All dignity and modesty goes out the window after giving birth. If I have a crying, starving baby and I'm at the mall, Target, the airport, a restaurant or even a wedding- it doesn't matter. I will whip out a boob and not think twice to feed my Peanut. I DO NOT CARE.
3. I'm a diaper snob. Before kids, I didn't think there was a difference. BUT THERE IS. A big one. We've tried all different kinds and it's Pampers for us. If I'm doing off brand, Target's Up & Up brand is okay but that's about it. Now when making diaper cakes, I will always use Pamper's diapers.
4. I used to be a hand me down snob. But that's changed too. If it's clean or cleanable and in good condition, we will take it! Some of Peanut's favorite things (his swing and jumperoo) were handed down to me from friends and they have been life savers! I have a ton of hand me down books and clothes as well. I'm still picky about the condition of the item but I know my friends are clean 😉
5. I am not grossed out by ANYTHING when it has to do with my kid. I pick his nose like it's my own. Suck his snot out with my mouth (using the nosefrida), wash his hiney with my bare hands in the tub. Wipe his drool with my finger or my own clothing if necessary. I even kind of enjoy changing a dirty diaper- but that may change when we introduce solids.
6. Let myself go. I do miss, having my hair and make-up done every day for work. Now, I'm at home all day and have only a few things that are good to wear for easy breast feeding. My hair is shedding so badly that I only like to have it up to keep lose hairs from falling on my body *shiver* and make-up is pointless. I feel bad for Wes 😜 but right now, I don't have the time. I'm telling myself this is a temporary thing. Once I can fit back into all of my clothing, maybe I'll feel more apt to put myself back together and feel like a human again. Until then, I'll rock wearing spit up and poo. Eh, whatever. Rub a wet wipe on it and it's all good.
Which brings me to 7... I consider wet wipes to be a legitimate way of cleaning. On my hands, clothing, to wipe Jack's face or as make-up remover for me, etc. Who knew they were so amazing?! I like Amazon's Element brand for sensitive skin in the purple package.
8. Let Peanut cry it out. There have been tough days where he has been fussy and just a monster to be around. In order to keep my sanity, I have buckled him in his swing and left him to wail so I can take a 20 minute hot shower and gather my thoughts. I have learned that a baby will not die from crying for a little bit and it's either that or I jump out the window. If Jack had to choose between the two, I think he'd prefer to cry in his swing... I also let him cry it out in his crib at nap time. Lots of times he goes right down but if he doesn't, and I know he's tired, I'll let him cry. It usually doesn't take too long but if he needs to wear himself out crying to take a nap, so be it.
9. Not keeping up with household chores. Peanut's nap time is Mama's quiet time. Sometimes watching Real Housewives with a cup of coffee in peace is more important than doing laundry or the dishes.
10. I never in a million years thought I would be annoyed having my wiener dogs. I now have little to no tolerance towards them when they don't listen. They often get most of my aggression during the day, which makes me sad. But gosh darn if they would just behave, it would be easier for everyone. They do not get the love and affection that they used to. Having a Peanut is a big change for everyone. I'm hoping things will get better for us and for them as Jack gets older. Right now, it's too hard to go to the park every day by myself with an infant. And they are terrible walkers, so that's out of the question. They're still very loved, just in a different way than before.
1. Post a million pictures on social media. I used to roll my eyes at the parents who would post a pic of their kid every. single. day. Now I am one of those mother's. 😂 My excuse being that all of our family lives out of state but really it's because I truly feel I'd be doing a disservice to the world by not showing him off.
2. Breast feeding in public and not giving AF. All dignity and modesty goes out the window after giving birth. If I have a crying, starving baby and I'm at the mall, Target, the airport, a restaurant or even a wedding- it doesn't matter. I will whip out a boob and not think twice to feed my Peanut. I DO NOT CARE.
3. I'm a diaper snob. Before kids, I didn't think there was a difference. BUT THERE IS. A big one. We've tried all different kinds and it's Pampers for us. If I'm doing off brand, Target's Up & Up brand is okay but that's about it. Now when making diaper cakes, I will always use Pamper's diapers.
4. I used to be a hand me down snob. But that's changed too. If it's clean or cleanable and in good condition, we will take it! Some of Peanut's favorite things (his swing and jumperoo) were handed down to me from friends and they have been life savers! I have a ton of hand me down books and clothes as well. I'm still picky about the condition of the item but I know my friends are clean 😉
5. I am not grossed out by ANYTHING when it has to do with my kid. I pick his nose like it's my own. Suck his snot out with my mouth (using the nosefrida), wash his hiney with my bare hands in the tub. Wipe his drool with my finger or my own clothing if necessary. I even kind of enjoy changing a dirty diaper- but that may change when we introduce solids.
6. Let myself go. I do miss, having my hair and make-up done every day for work. Now, I'm at home all day and have only a few things that are good to wear for easy breast feeding. My hair is shedding so badly that I only like to have it up to keep lose hairs from falling on my body *shiver* and make-up is pointless. I feel bad for Wes 😜 but right now, I don't have the time. I'm telling myself this is a temporary thing. Once I can fit back into all of my clothing, maybe I'll feel more apt to put myself back together and feel like a human again. Until then, I'll rock wearing spit up and poo. Eh, whatever. Rub a wet wipe on it and it's all good.
Which brings me to 7... I consider wet wipes to be a legitimate way of cleaning. On my hands, clothing, to wipe Jack's face or as make-up remover for me, etc. Who knew they were so amazing?! I like Amazon's Element brand for sensitive skin in the purple package.
8. Let Peanut cry it out. There have been tough days where he has been fussy and just a monster to be around. In order to keep my sanity, I have buckled him in his swing and left him to wail so I can take a 20 minute hot shower and gather my thoughts. I have learned that a baby will not die from crying for a little bit and it's either that or I jump out the window. If Jack had to choose between the two, I think he'd prefer to cry in his swing... I also let him cry it out in his crib at nap time. Lots of times he goes right down but if he doesn't, and I know he's tired, I'll let him cry. It usually doesn't take too long but if he needs to wear himself out crying to take a nap, so be it.
9. Not keeping up with household chores. Peanut's nap time is Mama's quiet time. Sometimes watching Real Housewives with a cup of coffee in peace is more important than doing laundry or the dishes.
10. I never in a million years thought I would be annoyed having my wiener dogs. I now have little to no tolerance towards them when they don't listen. They often get most of my aggression during the day, which makes me sad. But gosh darn if they would just behave, it would be easier for everyone. They do not get the love and affection that they used to. Having a Peanut is a big change for everyone. I'm hoping things will get better for us and for them as Jack gets older. Right now, it's too hard to go to the park every day by myself with an infant. And they are terrible walkers, so that's out of the question. They're still very loved, just in a different way than before.
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